門診中,一位媽媽陪著女兒來產檢,
超音波螢幕上的小嬰兒吃著大拇指,邊睡邊微笑,媽媽看著,回憶起她生每一胎的體重和頭圍,女兒驚嘆:「3600多克,妳生弟弟的時候很辛苦吧!」媽媽笑著說:「哪有考慮這麼多,你們平安最重要。」
家父早逝,從我有記憶以來,我的母親一直母兼父職,失去了家裡的經濟支柱,她一肩挑起養大孩子的責任,只有小學畢業的她並沒有太多工作機會,帶著5個孩子,她一件一件地接著家庭代工,才養大我們。
她總是感嘆自己雖出身小康家庭,原來是可以讀書的,卻只因為算命先生的一句話,娘家認定她只會是童養媳,不讓她繼續就學,這成了她終身的遺憾。從小到大,除了叮嚀我們要吃飽穿暖,總不忘督促我們好好唸書,如果今天我能有一些些成就,都要歸功於她的諄諄教誨。
我的母親一生勤儉堅毅,到了晚年才有比較舒適的生活。雖然家父過去經營照相館,但在他過世之後,生活困頓的我們難得有合影的機會,每一張合照都彌足珍貴。感謝我的母親,她賜予我生命,也讓我有機會用雙手迎接更多新生命。
今天是母親節,大家有沒有回家團圓慶祝呢?
如果大家有跟媽媽合照的相片,歡迎跟我分享你們的喜悅,也祝福全天下的媽媽母親節快樂,身體健康,闔家平安。
Happy Mother’s Day everyone!! This is a photo of me and and my mother some years ago. My father passed away early. Ever since I have memory, my mother had been a single mum who raised 5 children.
She only had primary school education so did not have a lot of work opportunities. So she had always prioritised our education in our upbringing.
Even though my father had a photography business, me and my mother seldom take pictures together. This is a precious photo of my mother and I when the current clinic just opened.
Today is Mother’s Day. I would love for you to share your photos with your mothers as well. Let’s celebrate this lovely day with your family!